9.29.2007
Liking/loving someone is normal
After ten thousand years, nakalabas ulit ang lola nyo.Lumabas kami nina Chino, Archie and Oliver yesterday after work to 121 - it's a bar in Leviste in Makati.
I just want to share something that we talked about.
Archie made kwento his experience when he liked someone in the workplace. That girl found out about it and started avoiding Archie. I don't see why people, especially girls, reacts that way. I mean it's "normal" to like someone right? I'm not making the girl look bad but this is just something I just want to discuss ok....?
Although most "likings" leads to bf/gf relationship but that's really up to you diba? Just don't "punish" someone by avoiding him just because he likes you. Not unless of course you have your own reasons. It's just a matter of communication. Sa mga lalake naman... it's ok to feel like/love to someone, what will matter is what are you going to do about it.
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I didn't put the details of what was the situation but it's more of a principle. Hindi ko na sasabihin XD
I also thought of discouraging would-be suitors as well but I guess it's better to tell them right then and there kaysa naman sa iniiwasan.
Sa akin kasi, hindi ako sanay ng may iniiwasan especially if you're working closely together. just be clear nalang i guess.
then again it's a case to case basis.
I also thought of discouraging would-be suitors as well but I guess it's better to tell them right then and there kaysa naman sa iniiwasan.
Sa akin kasi, hindi ako sanay ng may iniiwasan especially if you're working closely together. just be clear nalang i guess.
then again it's a case to case basis.
"Archie made kwento his experience when he liked someone in the workplace."
My gosh, Myla! I've been gone how many weeks and you're a coño already? I'm gonna kill you when I get back. :)
My gosh, Myla! I've been gone how many weeks and you're a coño already? I'm gonna kill you when I get back. :)
Hahaha ambagal ko talaga magbasa ng blog.
Depende talaga yan sa scenario XD Ako prangka ako, kaya harap-harapang basted sa akin yung mga would-be suitors. BWAHAHAHAHA! >:)
Depende talaga yan sa scenario XD Ako prangka ako, kaya harap-harapang basted sa akin yung mga would-be suitors. BWAHAHAHAHA! >:)
Hay nako. I really have a hard time understanding women. But I think this is due to the culture here, that Filipinas are not supposed to be assertive and open about their feelings, punyetang cliche yan why can't we get over this? Why let cliche and traditions keep us from understanding the greater world and helping the greater world understand us in turn? *anger* *rage* *existential angst*
Okay I'm done ^____^
Okay I'm done ^____^
LOL wag ka magwala ahaha!
We can't blame those people who thinks that way.
Ang sa akin lang to each his own. Wala sanang "judgements" when it comes to this. We're on different side so we can't completely empathize each other.
We can't blame those people who thinks that way.
Ang sa akin lang to each his own. Wala sanang "judgements" when it comes to this. We're on different side so we can't completely empathize each other.
haha, if not for the 7 replies, i wouldn't have taken the time to read this topic.. lol.. okay now i know bkt madami replies xD.. yay! ako rin mag comment..
indeed its a major mind boggler when a person showing concern and closeness suddenly changes his/her attitude towards u haha.. when this happens iniisip ko nalang.. maybe she’s jus havin her “it’s a gurl thing” moment ( --,).. but if things don’t change after a few weeks.. well.. “alam na” yun hahah
often times I try to figure out if there’s a problem or if I have done something wrong, but sometimes things are just better left unanswered. Ehek! xD
indeed its a major mind boggler when a person showing concern and closeness suddenly changes his/her attitude towards u haha.. when this happens iniisip ko nalang.. maybe she’s jus havin her “it’s a gurl thing” moment ( --,).. but if things don’t change after a few weeks.. well.. “alam na” yun hahah
often times I try to figure out if there’s a problem or if I have done something wrong, but sometimes things are just better left unanswered. Ehek! xD
it's ok to like/love someone, what will matter is what you are going to do about it.
sounds family. :P
--Pretselz
sounds family. :P
--Pretselz
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Avoidance is a method of discouraging the would-be suitor without having to turn the person down in his face. Lalong-lalo na kung alam mong 100% masasaktan siya - meaning halatang dedz na dedz na siya sa iyo.
It's also a very viable option when the girl has been getting overtures from the would-be suitor about his intentions. Maraming shy na pinays.
Depende kasi yan sa situation nung dalawa. What if may BF pala si girl sa officE? What if may crush na iba si girl sa office at nagpapa-cute siya? Nakaka-cramp ng style ni girl yun kapag may nagpapa-cute na iba sa kanya.
pero, based on personal experience and mga kwento ng friends, more often than not nahihiya silang mag-turn down ng mga suitors. Naaawa kasi sila - so better the distance, and let time heal all wounds.
It's also a very viable option when the girl has been getting overtures from the would-be suitor about his intentions. Maraming shy na pinays.
Depende kasi yan sa situation nung dalawa. What if may BF pala si girl sa officE? What if may crush na iba si girl sa office at nagpapa-cute siya? Nakaka-cramp ng style ni girl yun kapag may nagpapa-cute na iba sa kanya.
pero, based on personal experience and mga kwento ng friends, more often than not nahihiya silang mag-turn down ng mga suitors. Naaawa kasi sila - so better the distance, and let time heal all wounds.
I didn't put the details of what was the situation but it's more of a principle. Hindi ko na sasabihin XD
I also thought of discouraging would-be suitors as well but I guess it's better to tell them right then and there kaysa naman sa iniiwasan.
Sa akin kasi, hindi ako sanay ng may iniiwasan especially if you're working closely together. just be clear nalang i guess.
then again it's a case to case basis.
I also thought of discouraging would-be suitors as well but I guess it's better to tell them right then and there kaysa naman sa iniiwasan.
Sa akin kasi, hindi ako sanay ng may iniiwasan especially if you're working closely together. just be clear nalang i guess.
then again it's a case to case basis.
"Archie made kwento his experience when he liked someone in the workplace."
My gosh, Myla! I've been gone how many weeks and you're a coño already? I'm gonna kill you when I get back. :)
My gosh, Myla! I've been gone how many weeks and you're a coño already? I'm gonna kill you when I get back. :)
Hahaha ambagal ko talaga magbasa ng blog.
Depende talaga yan sa scenario XD Ako prangka ako, kaya harap-harapang basted sa akin yung mga would-be suitors. BWAHAHAHAHA! >:)
Depende talaga yan sa scenario XD Ako prangka ako, kaya harap-harapang basted sa akin yung mga would-be suitors. BWAHAHAHAHA! >:)
Hay nako. I really have a hard time understanding women. But I think this is due to the culture here, that Filipinas are not supposed to be assertive and open about their feelings, punyetang cliche yan why can't we get over this? Why let cliche and traditions keep us from understanding the greater world and helping the greater world understand us in turn? *anger* *rage* *existential angst*
Okay I'm done ^____^
Okay I'm done ^____^
LOL wag ka magwala ahaha!
We can't blame those people who thinks that way.
Ang sa akin lang to each his own. Wala sanang "judgements" when it comes to this. We're on different side so we can't completely empathize each other.
We can't blame those people who thinks that way.
Ang sa akin lang to each his own. Wala sanang "judgements" when it comes to this. We're on different side so we can't completely empathize each other.
haha, if not for the 7 replies, i wouldn't have taken the time to read this topic.. lol.. okay now i know bkt madami replies xD.. yay! ako rin mag comment..
indeed its a major mind boggler when a person showing concern and closeness suddenly changes his/her attitude towards u haha.. when this happens iniisip ko nalang.. maybe she’s jus havin her “it’s a gurl thing” moment ( --,).. but if things don’t change after a few weeks.. well.. “alam na” yun hahah
often times I try to figure out if there’s a problem or if I have done something wrong, but sometimes things are just better left unanswered. Ehek! xD
indeed its a major mind boggler when a person showing concern and closeness suddenly changes his/her attitude towards u haha.. when this happens iniisip ko nalang.. maybe she’s jus havin her “it’s a gurl thing” moment ( --,).. but if things don’t change after a few weeks.. well.. “alam na” yun hahah
often times I try to figure out if there’s a problem or if I have done something wrong, but sometimes things are just better left unanswered. Ehek! xD
it's ok to like/love someone, what will matter is what you are going to do about it.
sounds family. :P
--Pretselz
sounds family. :P
--Pretselz
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It's also a very viable option when the girl has been getting overtures from the would-be suitor about his intentions. Maraming shy na pinays.
Depende kasi yan sa situation nung dalawa. What if may BF pala si girl sa officE? What if may crush na iba si girl sa office at nagpapa-cute siya? Nakaka-cramp ng style ni girl yun kapag may nagpapa-cute na iba sa kanya.
pero, based on personal experience and mga kwento ng friends, more often than not nahihiya silang mag-turn down ng mga suitors. Naaawa kasi sila - so better the distance, and let time heal all wounds.